About 20 percent of people over the age of 65 experienced some form of violence at that age. They are discriminated against almost every day, and according to data, they make up more than a fifth of the population of our country and are more numerous than minors. The nation is getting older, experts say, and they warn that it is necessary to arrange gerontological services and homes and to work on the prevention of violence.
In most cases, the bullies are the closest ones - children, grandchildren or people from the environment. However, it is precisely them that the elderly rarely report to the authorities. Experts say, violence only gets in the way if someone from the side sees it.
"In order for there to be an intervention from the side, the victim must complain, and that is a difficult moment. That's the missing link. They are ashamed to report their children, because by doing so they report the failure of their entire life. They invested in children, believed in them, loved them for decades and now they need to go to court or to the police and say that they are victims of violence", says Prof. Dr. Zorica Mršević from the Faculty of European Legal and Political Studies.
And not only physical, but also psychological and often economic violence. Although the average pension in Serbia is about 38.000 dinars, it is sometimes the only source of income in the family. Elderly women, especially those who live in the countryside, suffer violence more often.
"Those who have nothing are exposed to violence, because then they were living at the expense of their family members, not living with them." Those who have some kind of pension are also exposed to violence, and most often they receive agricultural pensions amounting to 17.000 dinars," says Nadežda Satarić from the Citizens' Association "Amiti - Strength of Friendship".
it is recommended that they make important decisions about how they will live in old age, while being aware of the consequences.
"What is characteristic of Western countries is that when people retire there, they make a decision and regulate their relationships in the family. Whether they will do it through a will, gift contracts and lifetime maintenance, whether they will decide to go to a home, that is their decision. We must not put pressure on them," says Ivana Stevanović, director of the Institute for Criminological and Sociological Research.
Many spend their old age in 40 government facilities for the elderly and adults and 257 private licensed homes. However, there is violence there too. Last year, 52 cases of violence were reported, mostly between the users themselves.
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